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Praise Vandeh's avatar

Wow! Your vulnerability shines through your words. It’s like you invited me to sit with you in your feelings. Sending you hugs and love ❤️

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mary wallace's avatar

what a beautiful essay to come back with haaniyah, welcome back 💜 though for different reasons, I can relate to always wondering what men in passing think of me if they notice at all, and feeling like a passenger in my own life in the context of dating (and other things) and hoping I’ll be “fixed” by 30. I also love that this essay doesn’t have a positive conclusion, as that’s not always realistic, and it’s nice to write about something without having a clear answer.

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